ok I need help with what is a charm and what is a ward. I have never even heard of this kind of cheat before from a boss. he'll say can you keep up with my ward dance, and he will put a charm on you. I don't know what is considered a ward and what is considered a charm. please can someone tell me so I can beat this boss.
A ward is a shield, prism or trap - basically anything that hangs around your feet.
A charm is a blade, buff or debuff - basically anything that floats around your head.
For cheating boss purposes, it's best to look the boss up on the wiki and read carefully to see what his exact cheats are. Just Google "Wizard101 name of boss" and usually the Central wiki will be among your top search results.
Since you're talking about a ward dance, I suspect you mean Cipactli. First link below is the wiki entry. Second is a guide to help you get past this boss.
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Alia Misthaven