Ok I don't know if this would work out but what if we could have more options as we set up pvp. Such as change the ranking system to private vs private exalted. This would possibly help matches be more fair. I mean a warlord vs private isn't really all that fair in my opinion but at the same time. Rank doesn't decide the game. Your stats, spells, luck, and whatever else that may be. Just throwing ideas out.
Please explain how being a warlord is such an advantage. The title warlord is simply a badge stating your PVP rank, it doesn't make you an unstoppable force. If you are exalted and going against a warlord they are likely also 20-40 levels lower than you, strategy and skill is the only thing that separates a warlord from a newer PVPer, try some practice matches against people your level and develop a strategy before diving headfirst into ranked matches